Thanks for inviting me, now what the heck do I wear?!?!

I totally understand that this is a common question nowadays! Let me put it this way... Our flowers are the above pictured painted daisies. The attendants are wearing black with accents in the colors of the flowers. It is completely permissible (and encouraged by us) that you wear the colors that you feel good in and are comfortable! If that means your black dress makes you feel good and celebratory, then please wear that! I know that it is a common concern as to whether you should or should not wear black at a wedding. I also know how difficult it is to find 'evening wear' that ISN'T black! So to sum it up... It's my wedding and I say (and you can quote me on this), "I want you there to celebrate with us in black, hot pink, yellow, whatever!"